Most of our life we wait for something to happen. For circumstance to change. For an opportunity to present itself. For the stars to line up just so we can make that final decision, and not look back. Because that is essentially what change really is. A firm decision that is backed up by our conviction that what we want is possible for us to have right now, and so we go for it.
Our instincts direct us to search our minds for inspiration. But when our thoughts come up with nothing that leads us to conclude that we've reached the end of the road. The more time we spend being stuck, the more we become convinced in our self-diagnosed problem. But how do we break free from that? How we can detach from this state of being stuck?
Are you are looking to fix your emotional pain and seek help? Have you ever found yourself wanting to share but didn't have anyone that can truly listen? We all have our stories that hurt us, but not all are sure what to do with them. Most times we don't know how to make ourselves feel better and ponder why we can't heal for so long
At one point or another, we are all tricked into following what we fear and not what we want. Only few dare to follow their desires all in without looking back. You can't fake going all the way. Those that try are continuously looking back to check up with their fears. Managing fear is time and emotion consuming. People can't operate being afraid all the time. Fear limits our freedom and creativity. Even those that work the jobs they hate are committed to doing so fearlessly.
Are you having difficulties committing to what you want to achieve? Do you find yourself quitting even before starting? Empowerment speeches don't do it for you anymore? You just don't see yourself overcoming the obstacles in your life. If any of this is true you might want to get a deeper realization about your situation
How many times did you find yourself backing out form an incredible idea or desire or even a lifelong dream. Unable to commit and follow through with what you want. Initially we are overwhelmed by how good our desire feels but later it just turns into another unrealistic dream. Find out how you can change this pattern
Nobody wants to be a "nobody". Our drive to stand out and be somebody sometimes results at the cost of being happy. If you feel a burden playing the role you chose to play in your life, know that it is possible to choose a different one. The one that relates to you directly through which you can authentically express yourself, without any effort whatsoever
Being yourself is the oldest advice in the book, however almost no one applies it to their lives. If there is an area in your life that you're unsatisfied with, it is exactly because of that. What makes it difficult to be yourself is our unwillingness to see the choices that we make, that do not represent who we are.
The way we perceive and give meaning to time affects our lifestyle. Sometimes instead of choosing how we would like to manage our time, we let time pressure get to us and manage us. This causes an inconvenience in our lives, that takes its toll on our emotional state. Read more to get a new perspective about what time is, to release yourself from its burden.