Sometimes when we are lied to, we call it deception, disrespect, other times we call it a betrayal. Either way, you look at it, we feel hurt, and the reason we get hurt is that we depend on other people's opinions about us. And when we find out that our source of approval was dishonest we begin to question our own worthiness
Can you define yourself? Should you? The very attempt doing so will always result in looking in our past. Nevertheless, we are continually being asked to describe ourselves at job interviews, social encounters, romantic dates, etc. But what if I don't want to be the result of my past experiences, conclusions, and actions. Who am I then?
Our instincts direct us to search our minds for inspiration. But when our thoughts come up with nothing that leads us to conclude that we've reached the end of the road. The more time we spend being stuck, the more we become convinced in our self-diagnosed problem. But how do we break free from that? How we can detach from this state of being stuck?
Are you are looking to fix your emotional pain and seek help? Have you ever found yourself wanting to share but didn't have anyone that can truly listen? We all have our stories that hurt us, but not all are sure what to do with them. Most times we don't know how to make ourselves feel better and ponder why we can't heal for so long
Are you having difficulties committing to what you want to achieve? Do you find yourself quitting even before starting? Empowerment speeches don't do it for you anymore? You just don't see yourself overcoming the obstacles in your life. If any of this is true you might want to get a deeper realization about your situation
Being yourself is the oldest advice in the book, however almost no one applies it to their lives. If there is an area in your life that you're unsatisfied with, it is exactly because of that. What makes it difficult to be yourself is our unwillingness to see the choices that we make, that do not represent who we are.