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My Source Of Approval

What approves of me? What allows me to be and to do what I want? We often get stuck by our own created rules of disapproval of ourselves. What we can and can’t do, what is allowed and not allowed. We never stop to ponder about the mental obstacles that we call rules, obligations, social norms and agreements. What and who approves of our choices and desires? Yours truly, Boris. Advertisements __ATA.cmd.push(function() { __ATA.initSlot('atatags-1-5df18fb27805c',…
Personal Growth

Stuck in the past

Sometimes a moment overwhelms us. So deeply that we’re getting stuck in it. Or so we think. We replay a certain moment in time over and over again in our minds. The images, the conversations. Thinking about what was said. Contemplating about how everything was. Looking thru everything one more time, just in case we forgot to look somewhere. Just in case we overlooked some detail. There is this need to go over everything, every little detail.…
Job / Career Money Personal Growth

You already know how to solve your problems

What’s the problem? It’s not my problem. Where is the problem? There is no problem. How often when things don’t work out, you categorize them as problems? Thinking in terms of problems and solving problems. How often do you find yourself restless just because there is this something that needs to be solved? Don’t worry there is a solution to any problem, that’s what they say. But is there really a problem to…
Health Personal Growth Spiritual Growth

I feel Empty

Do you feel empty? No wants whats or ever. No particular desire, nothing. But you’re restless. It disturbs you. You can’t find peace or quiet in your mind. Even when you don’t want anything. You don’t want to look at anything hear anything. Nothing. Why does it disturb us, feeling empty? It’s simple because we’re used to doing, and looking to do something. Experiencing something. Involving ourselves…
Health Personal Growth Relationships

That kid got it all wrong

Are you looking for people to notice you? Are you looking for attention? Are you looking for a savior? Are you expecting people to be as you like them to be? Are you expecting people to do what you want? Do you depend on people’s opinion of you? Do you depend on what people say or do? If you do – realize that you’re essentially looking to be nourished. You’re not looking for a lover, a friendship, a relationship, a friend,…
Fear Personal Growth

Making Up Permissions

Trying to be somewhere Reach a goal A place A target To be better To be better at something To be different I’m not like him or her I’m different I’m better… If I’m not then I’m just like anyone else. Unnoticed God forbids… I strive to be different In constant effort to be different How does this benefit me? Why do I care about being different? What does it mean to be different? Yeah… Not as everybody…