Tag: choice

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Choosing Mindset

How many times did you find yourself backing out form an incredible idea or desire or even a lifelong dream. Unable to commit and follow through with what you want. Initially we are overwhelmed by how good our desire feels but later it just turns into another unrealistic dream. Find out how you can change this pattern
Personal Growth

Free Will

We all believe that we are free, but not all feel that way. How can we have free will and yet unable to experience true freedom? Do we choose not to be free deliberately, or we just don't notice the choices that we make that limit our freedom?
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The silent killer

Believe it or not, you feel bad because you make yourself feel bad. Here is why. You don't have to choose sides, but you do it anyway. You don't have to settle or compromise, but you do it anyway. You don't need to believe anything that doesn't feel right, but you do it anyway... Why we do the things we don't want to do, is it because we believe that we don't have a choice?
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What about now?

Just the other day I was watching a video by Jason Silva on Facebook in which he was talking about learning. Jason was talking about two forms of acquiring knowledge from an article he read by a famous philosopher who described the way we learn. The first way we learn is by description and the second way we learn is by acquaintance or experience. That got me thinking about the decisions we make in life regarding what to do with our lives. Young people…
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Now you know

There are two types of thoughts involuntary, spontaneous thoughts and intentional thoughts. An example of an intentional thought is imagination. If I would ask you to imagine a blue balloon, you would create its image in your mind by thinking about it. If I would ask you to say “blue balloon” to yourself in your mind, you would hear yourself speaking in your head without talking. The second type of thought is involuntary thought,…
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Returning Triggers?

The repeated suffering is here only to remind you about your deepest wounds. The deepest wounds are here only to awaken you to your ability to withstand pain. Your increasing ability to withstand pain is here only to remind you about the time passed bearing the pain of your deepest wounds. The time passed bearing the pain of your deepest wounds is here only to remind you about the sacrifice you’ve made putting yourself second by ignoring…
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We are Visitors

We have this feeling of relief, when we’re visiting our family or staying at someone’s house for a couple of days, or when we’re staying at a hotel or any place for that matter that is not our home. Once we arrive at a place like this, we feel relieved in a certain way from certain things. We are relieved because we know that our basic needs are taken care of, such as food and a place to sleep. Usually, we would need to make our own food,…
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My Source Of Approval

What approves of me? What allows me to be and to do what I want? We often get stuck by our own created rules of disapproval of ourselves. What we can and can’t do, what is allowed and not allowed. We never stop to ponder about the mental obstacles that we call rules, obligations, social norms and agreements. What and who approves of our choices and desires? Yours truly, Boris.…
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What defines me?

What defines me? Is it the place I live in? Is it the people I know? Is it the money I earn? Is it the feelings I feel? Is it the thoughts I think? Is it the body I have? Is it the food I eat? Is it the lifestyle I live? – None of these things define me. I have no definition. Because I am not constant unless I chose to be. I am not one particular thing unless I chose to be. I am not this or that, I am not a quality, a description, a mood or an appearance. You can…
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Life is full of reminders to get you back on track

Pain and fear are merely reminders about your already made conclusions on subjects like – lack, freedom, love, health, wealth, worthiness. Look at your life and see what scares you and what makes you feel bad, what thoughts, what circumstances. The sadness you feel is also a reminder about your already made conclusions about life. Pain, fear, and sadness – are here as reminders, not threats. What is threatening you? People? …
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What is choice?

We make choices all the time. Sometimes we make good choices and sometimes not so good. Most of the choices that we make are automatic. We are following an already established pattern. I’ll explain. Whenever we react to something no matter what it is, we are choosing. Most of us react automatically to life circumstance and don’t consider the reactions as consequences to actual choices. Those people see the reactions as a part…
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Choosing what I want to see

The images that you see are your life Images that you see when you wake up Go outside Go to work Go to eat Go to sleep Go to your mind Look in the mirror Feel your emotions The images are your thoughts, beliefs, wants, feelings, the world They are all passing images. Passing thoughts Passing emotions. You place your attention on all these images. But when you’re not, the images are not there, you don’t see them. You are managing all the…
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Start seeing all the way

Many of us choose to see halfway. If you have something that you don’t like about yourself or your life and want to change it but think that you can’t, that is because you see things that bother you halfway. We are not interested in seeing all the truth, about what we’re unsatisfied with. When we want to change something about ourselves it is usually because we dislike how we feel about that something we want to change, and we…
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Are You Uncomfortably Comfortable?

Make yourself comfortable no matter what you do. Walking, running, speaking, isolating, being social, at work, at home, at school, exercising, watching TV, being lazy, just be comfortable. Make yourself comfortable physically and emotionally by relaxing and calming yourself whenever you’re uncomfortable. So often we find ourselves uncomfortable and not giving a sh** about it, not giving attention to what is asking for our attention,…
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Getting what I want

We see the physical world around us, hear sounds everything is easily definable by our senses. We can identify where something ends and where it begins. We can see that easily. We can define a beginning and an end to every visual thing. The same with sound, it is very clear when it starts and stops. We take this finite experience that we have with everything in the world and apply it to another area of our lives – thoughts, emotions, and feelings.…
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You are always right

You are always right. Your convictions are based on your beliefs. You are dedicated to standing behind your beliefs. Your beliefs are based on your life choices, experiences, emotions, thoughts which feel very real and believable to you. Everything that you define real and draw a conclusion of, during your life turns to belief. So no matter what is happening in your life. No matter what you say about what is happening. You are always right.…
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Why I don’t fight thoughts

Don’t fight thoughts. The thoughts will always win. There is no need to fight thoughts, to find peace. You learn from thoughts. Thoughts are relevant. Like any other appearance. Fighting thoughts is like fighting any other appearance that is already here. It is useless and unnecessary. Anything that provokes you to fight, resist or disagree – is something that you don’t understand yet if you decide to fight it. If you…
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I can’t make a choice

Not being able to make up my mind. To make a decision or a choice that needs to be made. Feeling trapped, any decision I try to make is not to my satisfaction. This feeling of stuckness and stagnation comes from fear. When we fear the consequences that might come up as a result of making a choice. We stop ourselves. Choice is freedom, by not making any choice, we limit our freedom. Therefore feeling stuck in one place. Wanting to move but we can’t.…