Tag: comfort

Fear Personal Growth

Comfort vs Peace

Hello friend, I wish I had something to say to you to change your life to make you see who you are, to make you remember who you were, in an instant. But no matter what I say, eventually it will all come down to your willingness to be open with yourself about what puts you in discomfort, suffering, sadness and pushes you to look for a change. Most of you that seek change, happiness, peace, are easily distracted by the seeking. That is because you think…
Addictions Health Personal Growth

Break All Your Patterns

What it takes to change? What it takes to change your life? What it takes to change your attitude, your thoughts? What it takes to make that first step towards what you want? Why is it so difficult sometimes to start heading in the direction you want? Repetition is comfortable. Repetition is familiar and easy, it is even somewhat automated. But if you notice the repetition of whatever you dislike doing, saying, or thinking you can see that it is…
Personal Growth

What is choice?

We make choices all the time. Sometimes we make good choices and sometimes not so good. Most of the choices that we make are automatic. We are following an already established pattern. I’ll explain. Whenever we react to something no matter what it is, we are choosing. Most of us react automatically to life circumstance and don’t consider the reactions as consequences to actual choices. Those people see the reactions as a part…
Job / Career Personal Growth

Are You Uncomfortably Comfortable?

Make yourself comfortable no matter what you do. Walking, running, speaking, isolating, being social, at work, at home, at school, exercising, watching TV, being lazy, just be comfortable. Make yourself comfortable physically and emotionally by relaxing and calming yourself whenever you’re uncomfortable. So often we find ourselves uncomfortable and not giving a sh** about it, not giving attention to what is asking for our attention,…
Personal Growth

A thought doesn’t distract you, only you distract yourself with thought

Imagine that your thoughts are floating in colorful soap bubbles. Each though in a floating bubble. A bubble is free to move in any direction, you’re free to make it move in any direction. A thought is not an object, it has no weight. It is free to float like air. You are free to notice it. To follow it. To direct it in any way. There is no need to pop the bubble of thought. It is beautiful. It is free. It is free to collide with another thought bubble.…
Personal Growth Spiritual Growth

What is Life ?

You are the experiencer of life, you are the perceiver of life. Every perception of a part of life, is unique to you, to your personality, beliefs, points of view, emotional state, thoughts. Every person experiences life in his or her unique way. Life happens for every one of us in a unique, different way. Therefore, there is no – one life – a singular life for all. Every perspective of life is a different life, experienced from that…
Job / Career Personal Growth

Living faster than life

We’re always looking for something that isn’t here yet. Always in expectation. In restlessness waiting anticipating Constantly checking to validate that what I want is already here now. But it’s not. Because I’m not here. I’m in my mind’s constant anticipation. I keep checking. In five minutes. In ten minutes. In a minute. In an hour. Every morning. Every day. Checking for what is not here yet. That…
Fear Health Personal Growth

Do you feel safe when you say – Security?

What is future security? What is, future certainty? Is that even a real thing? What if this fear about the future became reality? I must do something right now to prevent something happening later. I’ll create security right now for later. Because later might be too late. Later the fear will be real. I would regret not creating this security for myself when I had the chance. Are you listening to yourself? Since when you’re the oracle…
Job / Career Money Personal Growth Relationships

Can I schedule life for later ?

The sooner I reach my goals the sooner my life will begin The real life The fun life The abundant life This is my belief But life is now And now And now No matter what I think or do No matter what I accept or not If I judge or not If I’m ignorant or aware Fun or boring Irritated or in comfort It’s all a part of life Life never stops for me I can’t press pause on life and resume it after I reach my destination. Life will never wait for me to accomplish…
Personal Growth Spiritual Growth

I am effortless without effort

Your being has no effort in being. Being now. Any effort that you feel, is your creation. You’re already being, without making any effort. You’re being effortless without effort. Realize this. Any effort that you feel, it’s you holding onto something. Convincing yourself that you need to hold onto something. Release your attention from whatever you’re holding onto. By relaxing your attention from everything.…