Tag: conditions

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Are you happy?

Are you happy? What is happiness for you? Happiness has many interpretations. You might be happy with your job, relationships, finance, health, mood, etc. It could be one or the other. You can’t really measure happiness. Some will look at their current circumstance to asses their happiness and some will look at their past achievements to do the same. In both cases, an attempt is made to asses something and come to a conclusion about happiness.…
Personal Growth

I screwed up

Give yourself permission to be without conditions. What does it mean? Give yourself permission to screw up Give yourself permission to be late Give yourself permission to judge yourself Give yourself permission to be afraid. Give yourself permission to be as you are. Give yourself permission to be the one that got that low grade. Give yourself permission to be the one that screwed up that project. Give yourself permission to be no matter the…
Fear Personal Growth

Fear to rule them all

Fear is an indication that we oppose what is happening right now. When we are opposing what is now, we try to gain control over it, change it, or ignore it. Either way, we are acting from fear, disapproving of what is happening. People think that fear is bad because fear brings unpleasant feelings to our bodies – racing beating heart, sweat,¬†inability to move, inability to react. No wonder we choose to ignore everything that we fear. What…
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Conditions made from beliefs

Having a to-do list makes me nervous. The knowing of uncompleted tasks is unsettling. There is a sense of incompletion. Since I have all this stuff to do, that is not done yet. I’m not complete. Not in peace. I was in peace before I had the to-do list. But how can I be now in peace when there is something to do. There is no way for me to be in peace until it’s all done. Sometimes we worry about what is not done. It makes us nervous. Time limiting…