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How much is enough?

The inner sense of satisfaction cannot be ever satisfied if it depends on the changing circumstance.When we seek to feel good about ourselves and look to get this feeling from the outside we fall into a trap. The problem with the outside is that it is always changing. So we find ourselves chasing what is always changing, never knowing how to stop because if we stop, what will make us feel good about ourselves? - You don't have to chase your happiness anymore.
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Conditions & Expectations

When looking to heal we face our mind's thoughts and opinions about our own situation, health and status. We stick and follow guidelines that we believing are important because they guide us in our lives. However when our reality doesn't meet our own set guidelines, we find it very difficult to focus on healing and moving on. So what can we do?
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Play the Game

Play the game of life. There is no other choice really, other than this. Sure you can have various spiritual awakening experiences, have different realizations about what is going on with you and life in general. But at the end of the day, that's all it is, passing experiences. You are still here, with your body, after all your aha moments, visions, and enlightening experiences.
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Everything Works

If life is a stream of passing events how come we spend most of our lives looking to reach some event, isn’t that obvious that once we reach it, that event will be washed away by the stream simply because of the nature of the stream, leaving us again in uncertainty. A change in perception must be made in order to change our attitude towards the stream of life. If a stream is a series of events then it must be treated as such. But unfortunately,…
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What’s in your way

It also seems that a need is stronger than a want. Whenever I feel that I need something it is usually backed up by a strong argument or a belief. I may want this or that and I may want something strong enough to go for it, but it will never compare to a desire of absolutely needing something. Ask yourself what do I want, the answer could be anything, love, money, peace, etc. Now, compare between two feelings, the first one is wanting what you want and…
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The price of Freedom

When was the last time you were Innocent, Vulnerable, Faithful, Courageous, Trusting? We sacrifice Innocence for suspicion, Vulnerability for boundaries, Faith for fear, Courage for routine, Trust for securities. And then we find ourselves waking up to misery and sadness in our lives. The path we walk on becomes as narrow as a tightrope. Any slight diversion from the path is causing us pain, fear, and suffering. But if we’re lucky,…
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Do more of what you love

Do more of what you love. Love is the only truth there is. The mind will tell you otherwise. This knowing of the mind comes from fear. Doing what you need, doing what you want comes from the mind and most of the time it comes from fear. Fear of the mind is not the truth. Fear of the mind is not real and yet we choose to believe it is. We interpret the feeling of the imaginary fear as real because we feel it in our bodies and then we conclude that this is the truth…
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What is the truth?

The truth that we hold in our minds believed to be the truth merely from observation, from stories. Some stories scare us and because we don’t like how fear feels we decide to avoid this or that story just in case it could be true. Doing so we subconsciously program ourselves to act as though this or that story is real and true. Inevitably with time, those stories become true in our mind, simply because we respond to them as if they were true.…
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Taking Flight

We cut our own wings before we learn how to fly. We limit our own reach. We set our own boundaries by defining limited destinations. We stop ourselves before we even begin. We think in terms and language that limits our minds and abilities. And then we take action according to the aforementioned limitations and boundaries. Your every thought, idea, every spark that lights your imagination is immediately introduced to a screening process of…
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Comfort vs Peace

Hello friend, I wish I had something to say to you to change your life to make you see who you are, to make you remember who you were, in an instant. But no matter what I say, eventually it will all come down to your willingness to be open with yourself about what puts you in discomfort, suffering, sadness and pushes you to look for a change. Most of you that seek change, happiness, peace, are easily distracted by the seeking. That is because you think…
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Nothing to fear

When you close your heart to the world and its people, you close your heart to yourself. As a result, when you find yourself needing support from yourself, you might not find it anymore. You have nothing to lose by opening yourself, your heart, and who you are to the world because when you are open, kind, sincere and honest, even in the most difficult of times, nothing can harm you, because you can always rely on your kindness, openness, sincerity,…
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Fearful Heart

Being scared is paralyzing our ability to see the truth. To see ourselves and to see others with an open heart, preventing us from understanding the situation we’re in. What is making us scared is the lack of trust in ourselves and others, judgment of ourselves and others. Many of us don’t even recognize the fact that we are scared most of the time because we are so used to being scared. The cringing of our bodies, the uncertainty in…
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5 steps to the Fearless Heart

The sense of playfulness – The one that wants to play not in their mind but in their heart. The sense of innocence – The one that wants to explore, just because. The sense of fun –  The one that wants to have fun from desire and not from addiction. In every moment of experience whatever it may be, whatever emotion you may feel, you can experience that you are free from it. You can experience that you are not bound by your emotions…
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What stops me, is here to set me free.

What stops you? What thought? What fear? What person? What emotion? As we go with our daily lives, we encounter emotional abruptions that stop our flow. Suddenly we feel off, what most of us do when that happens is usually get absorbed in whatever is making us feel bad or wait it out until it goes away. I personally seize this opportunity to be in a state of awareness to the cause of the feelings and the feelings that I have. I recognize my patterns…
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What it takes to make it

Determination, perseverance, persistence, motivation, willpower, hard work – these are all nice banner phrases. But do they help you change and get what you want? probably not. Words can communicate an idea which is great, but going from words to actions, actually doing something is whole a different story. The solution lies in attitude. Depending on what attitude you have towards yourself will determine your ability or disability…
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Start seeing all the way

Many of us choose to see halfway. If you have something that you don’t like about yourself or your life and want to change it but think that you can’t, that is because you see things that bother you halfway. We are not interested in seeing all the truth, about what we’re unsatisfied with. When we want to change something about ourselves it is usually because we dislike how we feel about that something we want to change, and we…
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Untangle

Give up On putting on your make up Give up On fear that you will ever break up You’re always whole Because you see all of your scattered pieces Look up Despite your fears and daemons Wake up To all the things you disagree with Don’t be afraid To shatter into million pieces You’ll have a better chance To learn about yourself in details Don’t get caught up on chasing every thought and angle Allow yourself to be in peace and…
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A New Beginning

Since when did I become unimportant? Since when what I want doesn’t matter? Since when I only care about pleasing others? Since when I decided to compromise on what I want? I forgot what it’s like to give myself what I want. To give myself what I want when I want it. I forgot how it is like to stand on my own. I forgot what it’s like to be me around other people. When I’m around other people there’s no real me anymore.…
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Where to start your spiritual journey

Sometimes the subject of our focus is too overwhelming emotionally and as result, we don’t want to be apart of the experience that we’re focused on. This is fear, and it creates limitations in our lives. Every thought that scares you, is already a created limitation by you. Every time we fear, we focus on some idea that makes fear. That idea, though, or belief is a limitation created by us. To release oneself from limitations.…
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Hurry up before it’s too late

The rush of trying to accomplish something in time, to fix something in time. Before it’s too late. Get a job, get into a relationship, get married, get a degree a career, etc. The fear of failing to accomplish things in time is what forces us to live the lives we don’t actually want, but choose to live them anyway. Cornering ourselves into a situation with no way out. Just because we think that this is how we’re supposed to live.…