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Opportunities

We are served each second on a daily basis with opportunities to better our lives. However, we do not recognize those opportunities because we look for opportunities that create experiences from interacting with the outside world. But what about our inner interactions with ourselves that hold infinite opportunities to reach happiness?
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How much is enough?

The inner sense of satisfaction cannot be ever satisfied if it depends on the changing circumstance.When we seek to feel good about ourselves and look to get this feeling from the outside we fall into a trap. The problem with the outside is that it is always changing. So we find ourselves chasing what is always changing, never knowing how to stop because if we stop, what will make us feel good about ourselves? - You don't have to chase your happiness anymore.
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Conditions & Expectations

When looking to heal we face our mind's thoughts and opinions about our own situation, health and status. We stick and follow guidelines that we believing are important because they guide us in our lives. However when our reality doesn't meet our own set guidelines, we find it very difficult to focus on healing and moving on. So what can we do?
Personal Growth

Why I am here?

Since the beginning of time mankind was fascinated by the question about its origin. Contemplating about ones purpose or reason for being. We mostly learn from observation and other people, rarely do we take the time to contemplate about these kind of questions. But I believe that each of us holds the answer to the purpose of our being.
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Who’s Bad?

You are – Compassionate, Loving, Giving, Friendly, Generous, Kind, Carrying, Sharing, Fearless, Confident, Powerful, Abundant, Peaceful, Free, Flowing, Good. How do I know this? You cannot learn how to become any of these things. It is not something that you can obtain either. If you try to learn how to become any of these things it would mean that you don’t see yourself as being such and it would be a forced attempt at best to become…
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Returning Triggers?

The repeated suffering is here only to remind you about your deepest wounds. The deepest wounds are here only to awaken you to your ability to withstand pain. Your increasing ability to withstand pain is here only to remind you about the time passed bearing the pain of your deepest wounds. The time passed bearing the pain of your deepest wounds is here only to remind you about the sacrifice you’ve made putting yourself second by ignoring…
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Expiration Date

What is the first thing that comes to mind when thinking about death? Is it ignoring thinking about death? The one that fears death fears life. Death is what makes us value life. We cannot experience gratefulness unless we experience the lacking of what we love, or at least imagining the lacking of what we love. Death is what makes us cherish life and embrace everything in life. Ask yourself what is the worst thing that could happen to me? if the…
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Do more of what you love

Do more of what you love. Love is the only truth there is. The mind will tell you otherwise. This knowing of the mind comes from fear. Doing what you need, doing what you want comes from the mind and most of the time it comes from fear. Fear of the mind is not the truth. Fear of the mind is not real and yet we choose to believe it is. We interpret the feeling of the imaginary fear as real because we feel it in our bodies and then we conclude that this is the truth…
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What is the truth?

The truth that we hold in our minds believed to be the truth merely from observation, from stories. Some stories scare us and because we don’t like how fear feels we decide to avoid this or that story just in case it could be true. Doing so we subconsciously program ourselves to act as though this or that story is real and true. Inevitably with time, those stories become true in our mind, simply because we respond to them as if they were true.…
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Perfect

Most of you will answer no to the question – Am I perfect? but why is that? You will immediately come up with a bunch of things about yourself that is currently not to your satisfaction when you think about being perfect. You will think about things that are needed to be fixed first before you can be perfect. Fixing. What is fixing? or more precisely – What can be fixed? Usually, when contemplating about fixing something, we think about…
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Please Share

My goal with this blog is to reach and help as many people as possible. Sometimes we stumble on a video or an article online that shifts our attention or our perspective to something we hadn’t noticed before, this sometimes brings relief or a realization that makes it easier for us to go through the day or even with our lives. Writing this blog I hope that you stumble on such realizations or moments of relief. I hope that the things that I share…
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What is Real?

If I was an impeccable clear, transparent, precise, glass – Would I notice myself? If I was the empty space that contains all that appears –¬† the world, the people, my body, emotions, and thoughts, would I still notice myself? Would I be able to see who I am and know my real self? If I was to dream, would I know my real self in that dream? or would I need to wake up from that dream to know myself? If you believe in everything that you see, hear,…
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Starting over

If you ignore yourself right now and only see the things that are missing in your life, you will always find yourself restless, seeking, never settling down, never completely satisfied, never really enjoying what you have, never enjoying the moment. You have to see yourself first. Really see yourself as you are. Most of us refuse to see ourselves. Perhaps we’re ashamed of ourselves. Perhaps we see ourselves not as good enough, unworthy.…
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I am only one

I am only one and there are so many of you. So many thoughts, beliefs,¬†rules that I need to remember, social conducts that I have to obey, problems that I need to solve. But there is only one of me. Will I ever get to address all the things that I need to address. Will I have enough time to listen to all the thoughts, worries, problems? Will I have enough time to fix everything I need to fix. After all, there is only one of me and so many of everything else…
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Forgiveness

Holding a grudge, when we feel insulted, mistreated, wronged in one way or another should only remind us that we put other people’s opinions, words, actions before our own. We perceive the world through others. Through their validation of ourselves. We are focused on the circumstances and events and conclude that they are the source from which we get hurt. We blame that source and not letting go of that blame unless something “happens”…
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Who do you think you are?

Most of the time we forget who we are, we focus on our experiences, and define ourselves as our experiences. When we fear our experiences we fear for our lives. What makes one experience preferable over another? Why we compare, and perceive some things as less than other things? How to stay focus on our true being? Yours truly, Boris.…
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How big is your heart?

How big is your heart? and I don’t mean it in a romantic or a metaphoric way. I don’t mean the physical heart either. I’m talking about the innocent, all loving, allowing, childhood-like-heart which is the base of every human being. Can you allow for the possibility that you can contain yourself inside that heart? That heart is big enough to accept your existence and all of existance. You know it is. If you feel victimized,…