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Personal Growth

Starting over

If you ignore yourself right now and only see the things that are missing in your life, you will always find yourself restless, seeking, never settling down, never completely satisfied, never really enjoying what you have, never enjoying the moment. You have to see yourself first. Really see yourself as you are. Most of us refuse to see ourselves. Perhaps we’re ashamed of ourselves. Perhaps we see ourselves not as good enough, unworthy.…
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I want a better life

I want a better life. I’ve noticed that I’m unhappy and I don’t like that. So many things annoy me, bother me, I look at my life and I don’t like what I see. I have to put up with so many things because I don’t have a choice. My house, my partner, my job, my neighbors, my bank account, etc. My options are so limited. I don’t know what can I do.  What do I do? If you find yourself stuck in unhappy life and you don’t…
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What to do when negative thoughts arise

What should I do when facing negativity and negative thoughts. Step One Observe whatever feels bad. Remind yourself that you are love. Remind yourself that if something makes you feel bad that is because you believe that it is true, while it is not. (see the previous post You are always right). You are love. Convincing yourself otherwise will make you feel bad. Remind yourself that you’re right. For thinking and reacting to thought the…
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I feel Empty

Do you feel empty? No wants whats or ever. No particular desire, nothing. But you’re restless. It disturbs you. You can’t find peace or quiet in your mind. Even when you don’t want anything. You don’t want to look at anything hear anything. Nothing. Why does it disturb us, feeling empty? It’s simple because we’re used to doing, and looking to do something. Experiencing something. Involving ourselves…
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Surrender or Fight?

We learn that fighting is good. Fight for yourself. Fight to win. Fight for fame. For glory. For pride. For life. We think that in order to get these things we need to fight – people, circumstance, thoughts, emotions, our fears. Because if you don’t fight you must surrender. Surrendering is shameful. Surrendering is a weakness. Losing is shameful. Only losers surrender. When we fight we are running from ourselves, running from…
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Can I schedule life for later ?

The sooner I reach my goals the sooner my life will begin The real life The fun life The abundant life This is my belief But life is now And now And now No matter what I think or do No matter what I accept or not If I judge or not If I’m ignorant or aware Fun or boring Irritated or in comfort It’s all a part of life Life never stops for me I can’t press pause on life and resume it after I reach my destination. Life will never wait for me to…
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If you feel good you can stop looking…

Sometimes we find ourselves in an unpredictable moment of peace or happiness. But the moment itself is very unsettling. Because it is rare. Because we’re not used to it. We’re used to doing, going, knowing everything ahead of time. So when an unpredictable moment of peace comes. We hurry to cancel it out, dismiss it before it’s over before we fully enjoy it. We treat it as a task. It suddenly becomes an item on our checklist. …
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You need you, first.

What do you need right now Ask yourself What do I need right now The answer is always I need me. If you think that you need something else. You are driven by lack. Lack of love Money Worthiness Security Certainty Stuff. All these things are a product of your mind. Your observation of the world. Circumstance, people, and whatever appears on your life’s path. You’re driven by something that you think is missing in your life when you look…
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The need to fix something

There is no need To conclude To make wise notions – Of reality Of thought Of Feelings Of condition Of circumstances Of mood There is no need to experience that. Although it is a given possibility. Experience only the base Experience life without meaning or word. You are free from making this effort of conclusion. Nothing will be missing if you just stop concluding. As everything is to your service. Stop fixing things. Stop thinking that…