Tag: safety

Health Personal Growth

Healing

Since many of my readers are emotional/energetic healers and therapists I thought I’d share a few realizations I had about healing. For me, healing can occur only by experiencing being in a safe place. You need to feel physically and mentally safe. Providing a safe place can be as a result of a dialog, environment, thoughts, trust, positive emotions, that are transmitted from the healer. Of course, the healer can also be the person that…
Money Personal Growth

My fault

Every time I got hurt, fooled, lost money, made a decision that didn’t benefit me. Every time I was laughed at, verbally abused, I blamed myself. Why? Because I was the one feeling bad. I was feeling the emotions. I blamed myself for feeling the emotions, that made me feel bad. I wanted to know what is wrong with me. Is it the way I look, dress, talk, walk. What is wrong with me? How am I different from others? Am I not normal? Of course, there was no way…
Money Personal Growth Relationships

I don’t know what to do anymore

I’m 37, That’s 20 years of doing for me. Give or take. Doing assignments, kindergarten, school, high school, work, university, work, career. Always in doing. Since I can remember. Tasks. At home, At school, At work. There was always something that needed to be done. So, I did do something. But did I want to? We want to believe that our doing comes from wanting, but it is not your obvious wanting. It is a fake kind of wanting. The wanting…
Fear Health Personal Growth

Do you feel safe when you say – Security?

What is future security? What is, future certainty? Is that even a real thing? What if this fear about the future became reality? I must do something right now to prevent something happening later. I’ll create security right now for later. Because later might be too late. Later the fear will be real. I would regret not creating this security for myself when I had the chance. Are you listening to yourself? Since when you’re the oracle…
Meditation Personal Growth

Be with what you have right now

I don’t know where my life may take me Because I cannot see what is not here I don’t know if I’ll be safe Because I can only feel safe right now I don’t know how I’ll feel Because I only know what I feel right now I don’t know if I’ll be alive Because all I know that I can breathe right now All I know is what I already have right now. Be with what you have right now. Try this meditation to get an experiential sense…
Job / Career Personal Growth Spiritual Growth

I don’t know what I want

I don’t know what I want to do Do you feel free? No Then you are not free to do what you want You want to feel free. Do you feel happy? No Then you won’t be happy no matter what you do You want to feel happy Do you feel safe? No Then you won’t feel safe doing anything You want to feel safe Do you feel that you love and care about yourself? No Then no matter what you’ll do you’ll only run from yourself from your freedom from your…
Fear Personal Growth

What is your source of safety ?

Is this ok Is that ok Thinking you’re being polite? Or being cautious? Looking for approval Anywhere you can get it Can this approve of me Can that approve of me Is this ok Is that ok Approval. For me, it was when I got scared of being yelled at for doing something that someone else disapproved. That, someone, was very important to me. It was my source of safety. When your source of safety stops working. You fear for survival. You would do anything…